Thursday, 10 December 2015

How to build Self-Confidence!

         Self-confidence is the important part of humanity as it represents self-efficacy and self-esteem. Self-efficacy is the extent or strength of one's belief in one's own ability to complete tasks and reach goals. Self-esteem is a belief that we are generally competent in what we do and we deserve to be happy in life. A person with self-confidence likes himself, thinks positively and willing to take risks to achieve her personal and professional goals.

      A person without self-confidence feels that he will not be able to achieve his goals and develops a negative perspective about himself and life. Self confidence can be build up by your own desire and willingness. Follow given below 10 steps to build self-confidence easily.

1) Positive Attitude: Positive attitude means positive approach towards life. Many people have negative thoughts like I can't do that, I will fail. First convert your negative thoughts into positive thoughts like I will try, I will be successful. Always ignore your negative thoughts and give more preference to positive thoughts while thinking.

2) Connect with positive people: Try to be in touch with good people in your family and friends that make you feel bad and stay away from negative thinking people

3) Identify yourself: Try to focus on your talent, express yourself through any form of art you like the most may be dancing, music, writing or painting. Find something you enjoy and go further with your interest. Such hobbies make you feel special and more confident.

4) Avoid fear and have patience: Some people with low cself-confidence have fear in public speaking. Such people should overcome their fear by practicing their skills and they will soon gain self-confidence and comfortable in what they do in their life. Patience is required to achieve success in our life. "Try Try but Don't Cry" indicates that we should never stop trying in our life and one day we will definitely achieve our goal.

5) Don't Compare with others: To build self-confidence always focus on your life for your betterment. Follow your role model to become smarter, intelligent and richer. Also now-a-days people spends more time on social media often encourages them to compare with others. But remember people only post good things happen to them and hide worst things. Everyone has ups and downs in life. Its better to concentrate on your life.
6) Learn from your Mistakes: No one is perfect in this world, everyone has insecurities and at some point in our life we may feel we lack something but this is reality we need to overcome our insecurities and move forward in our life.

7) Take care of yourself: It means maintaining your personal hygiene for healthy look by bathing regularly, brushing your teeth, exercise regularly, sleep well and eat healthy food. Practicing self care is important in building self-confident. If you will look good, feel good automatically you will feel confident.
8) Set short and long term goals: Try to set achievable goals and work hard to achieve it. Concentrate on achieving small goals and slowly you will be able to achieve long term goals easily. Dedication and determination is must and be confident in what you do. This will surely build your confidence.

9) Change your bad habits: There are some things which you don't like about yourself like laziness, sleepy feeling and many more. Try to change such habits for your betterment in life and career. You can feel less confidence for such habits. 
10) Help Others: Always help others for their benefits, this shows that you are kind to them and they will admire you. This will make you feel positive and more confident.

Sunday, 24 May 2015

Education in India!

    Education is the basic requirement for every individual to become self dependent. Good Education is a stepping stone to a high flying career. Education in India represents a great paradox. On the one hand we have IIMs and IITs that rank best amoung the best institutes in the world and on the other hand there are number of schools that don't even have the basic infrastructure. Even after 60 years of independence we are far away from the goal of 100% literacy. But still Indian talent is considered amoung the best in the world and Indians are in great demand in global job market.

   Education system in India is controlled and managed by the Indian Government to provide education to all without any discrimination. Education in India is provided by the public sector and private sector also. Government provide free and compulsory education to children between the ages of 6 and 14 as their fundamental right. 

  Now-a-days many Indians want to go abroad for their bachelor's and master's education. Because India still lags in employment opportunities and this makes indian talent to move abroad for their career settlement. In India, job market is still facing lot of recession and companies were unable to provide good salary package. Lot of educated youth is not getting job in India and suffering extreme frustration. Population increase is also one of the reason for unemployment. Lot of colleges, universities and institutes are opening everyday but unsuccessful in providing jobs after education.

   Over all Indian government still need to focus on quality, infrastructure and facilities of education to boost the Indian talent. Indians are great in their talent and if we are provided with good quality education in our country, then days are not far when India will be counted in developed countries.

Friday, 22 May 2015

English Speaking - A need of Time!

       "English Speaking" is becoming requirement for everyone now-a-days to complete in global work environment. Your career can get a good start if you are familiar with English language. Speaking English is not very tough for anyone especially when you are willing to learn English. 
       The first step to learn English is to take it as a challenge and read any good book or articles available on internet or you can watch videos on internet. If you have time to go for coaching you can also join English Speaking Course. Don't take learning as a task, enjoy it and it will be very easy for you to learn English.

       The most important aspects of learning English is to improve your vocabulary so that you can express your thoughts easily. Also concentrate on learning English Grammar which is must for sentence formation. Having good knowledge of words will help you to be more precise with your English communication.
      It is not necessary to have a detailed knowledge of grammar for speaking fluent English. In fact, speaking only needs a basic knowledge of grammar and a good vocabulary. Now-a-days no one use exact grammar for speaking English, many short forms were developed to make sentence easy to speak. All you need to believe in yourself and be confident to what you speak for good impression.
    For good English speaking, keep the sentences short and simple. Don't hesitate to ask the other persons for clarification if you do not understand them or you need any help. In English language also many words may carry more than one meaning. For spoken English concentrate on your word pronunciation while conversations with others. Keep practicing, the more you practice faster you will learn. 
    Try to understand the different accents of English Language in different countries. Watch English movies, news channel, serials, etc to learn different styles of pronunciation. Be polite and respectful while talking to others. Daily conversing in English will surely improve your English Speaking skills and you will be able to speak English fluently. 

Thursday, 21 May 2015

Personality Development

       "Personality" is totality of an individuals behavior, attitude, ego, interests emotional responses and social roles. Good Personality needs good physique, appearance, pleasing manners, intelligence, smartness, trustworthiness, good control over body and mind, personal integrity, responsibility and management.

        "Healthy Body and Healthy Mind" are two basic requirements for good personality. Healthy body requires good nutrition, personal hygiene and physical exercises like Yoga, Jogging, Pranayam, walking, aerobics, gym. Healthy mind requires positive attitude, meditation, living stress free life and need to be focused and clear on your goals of life and avoid all your worries.

       "Personality Development" means enhancing and grooming one's inner and outer self to bring a positive change in your life. This process covers increasing your confidence, improving your communication skills and your lifestyle. There are many crash courses available for people of all age groups for personality development. It is not necessary to join a personality development course, you can yourself bring change in yourself through self motivation and your strong will power.

        Personality development is becoming important now-a-days for everyone as it creates a good impression on others and helps you in your career growth and building good relationships. All you need is to focus on your strengths and work on your weaknesses. Always think positive and neglect all the negative energies around you. Personality development helps you to become stronger, happier and a good person.

Thursday, 14 May 2015

PIKU - A must watch Movie!

    "PIKU" is a movie which represents a strong relationship between Daughter "Piku" played by Deepika Padukone and Father "Bhaskor Banerjee" played by Amitabh Bacchan. Movie shows the basic fighting between Daughter and Father on family issues which is common between most of the families now-a-days due to generation gap. Father is suffering from acute constipation which makes movie funny and keeps you entertaining all the time with lot of funny moments.

     Father does not support Marriage of her daughter without purpose in movie. He always motivates her daughter to become like Great Personalities like Sarojini Naidu, Rani Lakshmi Bai and many more and suggest her not to waste your time by marrying a guy with low mentality who thinks marriage means a girl will cook food for him and sleep with him.

  Movie gives a strong message to all of us to support our parents when they need us more than others. Movie tells us that we should not leave our roots of family. Movie shows the women empowerment that how being a women you can support your parents and follow the duties that can be carried by a son as well. 

   Movie strongly encourage all of women to carry on their aim of life even after marriage. Movie shows all the family drama which will entertain you. Over all it is one of the simplest and finest movie that everyone should watch. Movie contains all the required elements that we want to see in a movie. It is a funny, emotional and entertaining movie. You will come out with a big smile and good feeling from the theatre.

Sunday, 10 May 2015

Power of Education!

     Education is a process of acquiring knowledge throughout life. Education is a learning phase of life at school, college or university which is an unending process. You can acquire education at any age. Education is empowerment, it has the power to remove poverty, ignorance and makes you independent by providing you career of your choice.

    In India still 60% people are illiterate which results in poverty. Our government has implemented various policies for education but still problem is unsolved. Many peoples are unable to get education due to lack of facilities in villages. Education does not mean that you have to go back to school, it simply means you start reading through books which interest you and will help you in reaching your goals.

     Everyone has the right to become educated. You may not always learn to get a degree but you learn to fulfill your ambitions by planning a way to get a good job, home and bank balance. Internet have lot of resources for learning online and lot of websites who provide online education. You can also read on internet and watch various videos available on internet.

       The more you learn the more powerful you are to change your life. So what are you waiting for, Now is the time to utilize power of education and become powerful in all aspects of your life.

Saturday, 9 May 2015

How to Choose a Career!

  "Career" is a person's journey of learning, work and other aspects of life. Career is defined by the Oxford English Dictionary as  a "person's progress through life". Career is also described as a person's occupation or a profession which involves special training or formal education. 

   I saw many people face difficulty in choosing their career. Now-a-days lot of fields are available and you just need to identify your interest of field. First of all analyse yourself and try to judge your skills and passion and then select your field. If you make career in field of your interest will be giving you lifetime work satisfaction.

   You can choose any career as per your hobby like if you like cooking you can become chef or if you like dancing you can become choreographer or if you like singing you can become singer or if you are good in creative things like painting, designing you can become a painter or designer. If you are good in maths you can become engineer. Its totally depend on your skills and interests that which career will be suitable for you.

   Career test are available now-a-days to help you choosing your career. Many consultancies provide career counselling to help you select right career. Once a right career is selected you just need to move on in life with your hard work and dedication towards your work. Success will be yours and you will achieve progress in life with work satisfaction and you will reach at top of your career.

"Marriage" - A Beautiful Relation

    "Marriage" is a beautiful relation that we share with a beautiful person. In India a girl left her family to lighten another family with her love and affection. Marriage is relationship between two person and their families which is made up of love and trust. In India marriage is a culture which can not be breaked by anyone as they believe it is a  relation of 7 births.

     When i was small i always wondered that how can we spent life with a person to whom we did not know and how can a girl left her family to complete another family but when i got married my all questions were answered automatically. I realized that marriage is a big change in girl's as well as boy's life. Marriage makes you responsible towards your family. You can feel the difference between you which comes along with the marriage.

   Marriage is a bond of love and trust on your partner. Everyone wants to have good life-partner but we don't know that god has selected our life-partner as we already heard that "Couples are made in Heaven". This is true guys as i always wondered that how we can find best life-partner for us. In today's world of technology everyone is finding their partners on matrimonial sites. 

   Marriage changes a girl's life, as a girl has to follow new family's traditions and living style to live a happy new life. But these changes makes you feel that you are a part of new family and it is just a phase of mutual acceptance. Finally its your life-partner who will be taking care of you for life-time. Both of you has to take care of each other, love each other and make your life easy by understanding each other's needs and requirements and try to fulfill each other's wishes. Wishing you all a "Happy Married Life."

Friday, 8 May 2015

Interview Preparation!

       Interview is just a process to analyse candidate's skills and expertise. Interviews are conducted to select right person for right job. If you want to prepare for interview, you need to improve your subject knowledge and skills required for that particular job. Now-a-days companies demand good communication skills so you need to improve your communication to get a job.


      Interview Preparation can be done by yourself, no need to join any classes or institute and waste your money. You need to work on your skills and improve your communication. You can watch videos available on internet and can do self preparation. You can read books related to interview to overcome your fear for facing interview. The main thing required is you should be technically sound in your field and subject knowledge so that interviewer will be impressed by your knowledge and skills and you can get a good salary offer from the company.

Thursday, 7 May 2015

Health is Wealth!

    "Health is Wealth", as we all know this but now-a-days we all are so busy in our lives resulting in lot of medical problems at younger age. Guys we all are educated and we all know what is good for health and what is not then also we neglect all these things.
      Health issues are increasing in our country very speedily from last few years. Many new diseases are arising and death cases are increasing. Being an educated person i think its my responsibility to make people aware of what we are loosing.

     Good Health needs proper healthy diet and proper exercise which keeps your body in good size.If you don't work-out daily your body will become fatty and you will become obese speedily which results in lot of medical problems. We all are busy in our daily routine works but we should dedicate one hour to our health.
    If we don't have good health then whatever we earns will be total waste as we will be wasting all our hard earned money on medical problems. So i just want to request you all to please concentrate on your health to live a healthy and wealthy life.